8.18.10
Monday, December 27, 2010
Swearing in as a Peace Corps Volunteer
8.18.10
Happy 56th Anniversary to my G-rents!
8.7.10
We were charla-ed out by the end of the week but definitely gained some good experience from it all. Our group was more for youth entreprenuership and adolescent learning combined, but not a whole lot of the charlas helped us in this regard. It was awesome to spend time with a specific group of volunteers too and get to know each other better. It was an exhausting week but very energizing, and we had a TON of ice cream, cakes, sweets, you name it, we ate it, multiple times of day, and WE LOVED IT!
The picture above is our group taking a tour of a mangrove, pretty sweet.
Site Visit After thoughts
7.24.10
Site Visit in Salinas
7.20.10
I arrived in San Vicente in the morning and met Cleopatra, who is one of my counterparts, or people who I will work with to come up with projects for my community. She works in La Oficina de La Mujer, Niñez y Adolescencia, basically an office for women and children who need support and advice during situations where they are abused and would like to file a report.
Pretty soon after I met her, Cleo left to go get someone and left me alone in the office but said I could use her computer and should answer the phone if it rang. I was a little overwhelmed and shocked she left me there alone without really knowing me, but it was fine! She came back and we started talking; she has lots of energy and good ideas, is really interested in getting the Town Hall in San Vicente on board with being more active in Salinas as it pertains to that office. Salinas is about 20 minutes away from San Vicente but it takes longer because of the road conditions.
When she came back a woman came in about her bf hitting her and she was thinking of going to Guayaquil with her two kids to live with her mother. Cleo has met with her before and explained to her a few options of leaving, or filing a report against him. Basically her role is to give advice to mistreated women and what their options are; she also accompanies them to file a petition against the abusers. After the woman left, Cleo explained that many woman come in more than once and say they’re gonna leave but change their minds. Some are worried about housing and finances, abuse is also a cycle. There is now a new law that no one can be put out of the house.
Then I met Cleo’s boyfriend from Germany, Ully, he’s a somewhat retired business consultant and came to Ecuador tohang out, coach some soccer, possibly flip houses. At lunch time, Cleo, Ully, Chalo (Cleo's boss), and a previous mayor of San Vicente drove me to Salinas. It was different from what I had somehow pictured in my mind. It's better to have no expectations so there isn't such a shock value at times. Salinas is a very small, very poor and rural, underdeveloped town. A lot of people live in houses made out of caña (sugar cane), some houses are abandoned, half built, there is one main dirt road that runs through the town.
When we arrived, I met Zeneida at the town's Microempresa (Small business) with her friend Nelly, and they were making peach yogurt in addition to rompope ( a eggnog-like licor drink/shake-yumm but thick, for sipping, like a thicker Baileys). Zeneida will be my counterpart in Salinas, so I will work with her and Cleo to develop positive projects for the community. Zeneida is the president of the Women's Group in Salinas and also has a lot of leadership responsibilities in Salinas.
We walked through the town to meet various people, especially those involved in the current youth groups. I met the President of the town, Wilson, the police, and saw an old daycare building that's currently closed, and the clinic, or subcentro de salud (not very clean).
After that we went to Zeneida's parent's house where I will live for the first three months I am in Salinas. In the house I will live with Zeneida’s parents and their granddaughter, Mirtha, and her son Josemi (3 year old terror).We sat down and talked about different ideas of what the community needs. Ully has lot of ideas for projects or ways to improve the town’s overall appearance or business opportunities, such as planting a tree for every new baby, hiring a cleaning staff for subcentro, growing grapes to make wine if the climate is right, sports to reduce crime and involvement with drugs. He would also like to help the Women's Group with creating more business opportunities in addition to the yogurt and rompope that they currently are making.
Chalo, Cleo and Ully left, and I went to a small meeting with Zeneida by the school with mostly mother's of the students. The purpose was more to introduce myself and explain my role. Everyone was really nice and very receptive, seemed excited about possible things we could do to help the kids with their self esteem, etc.
Later that night a meeting was organized with the town so I could be introduced to everyone. President Wilson led the meeting and people seemed ancy for me to get started and for me to work with the youth. I explained the goal of the week to hang out and get to know the town, then come back in August to start the two years. First 3 months will be interviewing people, they want a census done, and still getting to know everyone and integrating into the community. If I want to go into the schools I have to write an official letter explaining why and what I would do.
Overall it was a good day, but overwhelming thinking about the poverty/pressure of the amount of work that can be done/is desired, etc. I felt good about the support from the community though.
Monday, December 13, 2010
And your site iiiiiiissssss.....SALINAS!
7.16.10
Laundry the Sierran way
7.11.10
This morning I woke up and got my clothes together to learn how to wash my clothes by hand with my madre. Yes, it's a process in which the people use a rock, dry detergent and also a bar of soap with a brush. First we soaked my clothes in water and dry detergent for at least an hour. Then, you use water, the brush, soap, and rock, to wash the clothing. It felt a little bit like a Disney movie or something, where all the women get together with their wooden racks and scrub away! I learned with a pair of jeans, using the brush to get rid of dirt stains and what not. It’s exhausting work. My madre told me that on the coast, the people use as little water as possible because it’s expensive to use the water. I can imagine washing jeans to be very difficult there, and since it’s so hot it might be necessary to shower more often and thus wash clothes a lot more as well. I like spending time with her because she has so many stories about her life and her family, it’s great practice for my Spanish and I learn a lot about the family history, and about how strong and resilient my madre is.
After my laundry lesson, I went to meet up with the girls from Tabacundo, and we went to cayambe for the World Cup championship game. Before I left my madre told me to meet her at her mother’s house to kill some Cuy, or guinea pig, because we would have that for dinner on Monday night. There's gonna be mass held at her mother’s house for Alejandra’s birthday (my madre’s daughter).
Once i arrived at abuelita’s house, some people from the family were there but they weren’t killing cuy. Instead they were making some cookies called alfajores. It’s two small sugar cookies with some caramel in the middle, then the outside is coated with caramel and coated with coconut shreds=delicious! My madre’s nephew, David, was playing the guitar and singing some songs. He’s a very talented musician, and it was a great, relaxing evening spent with some of the family.
Friday, September 24, 2010
San Pedro!
7.10.10
Today (Saturday) I went to Ayora for the morning to work with a group of volunteers on some music for Family Appreciation Day that is coming up in a few weeks. There are other groups to organize stuff for the day, like a cooking group, dancing, etc. Today learned a new song, and a few people who can play instruments were learning the songs as well. I wish i could play the guitar and jam out! Afterwards we came back to tabacundo to watch the soccer game for 3/4th place for the world cup with a few other people. After the game we went to Angela’s grandmother’s house because the whole family was dancing for the fiestas of San Pedro, so the other volunteers wanted to check it out. We started at about 4 pm, and it was a great time! The family was extremely welcoming and full of energy. I love the songs that they sing, which pretty much talk about people getting drunk too fast, love stories, and there's even one about Tabacundo. The people dress up in indigenous outfits for the fiestas, and also carry bottles of alcohol to drink while walking/dancing around. We didn't dress up because we didn't expect to stay long and there were a lot of us, but Angela did because her family is pretty hard core! They dance almost every weekend for San Pedro, so she's a pro by now. After a while we were all given orange scarves that were embroidered with the family's name or something for the occasion, so we were welcomed into the family! Success!
Te busco, Te robo, Te dejo en el polvo. HASTA LUEGO!
7.9.10
So today is the big soccer day, yay!! I left my house in the dress that I was going to wear for the "Reina" Competition and had some other bags with all my soccer stuff and a change of clothes for after the games. I borrowed a white sweater from Betsy (my madre's daughter) but left it on the bus on accident! Hannah and i ran back to the bus station and checked multiple buses and talked to the drivers, only to figure out that our bus that we arrived on had probably just left, grrrr! I was all flustered and felt really bad for losing Betsy's sweater that I didn't really want to borrow in the first place!
We got to the stadium or center for the day and all the groups/teams had great costumes and barras, or sayings to represent themselves. Our slogan was "Hasta Luego Cocodrilo", like "See ya later alligator" but crocodile instead. Don't hate on it, we like it! And then our song or barra is written above as the title of this post, and it means, "I'll look for you, I'll rob you, and leave you in the dust. See ya later!" Our thoughts in creating it were related to playing soccer, like chasing someone down and stealing the ball from them.
We had the Reina Competition first and sang the National Anthem. Then 6 out of the 13 girls were picked to answer a question in Spanish. I was not chosen, nor did I win or anything, which is fine. I was glad not to have to speak Spanish in front of everyone!
We played 3 games, lost 2, but scored some goals and had a great time. The team from ayora won the tournament, and played their final couple of games in the rain! It was an exciting day and other volunteers had come to watch the tournament and hang out. Afterward a group of us went to a chinese restaurant for dinner which was really good, a nice change from an ecuadorian meal.
Before dinner I had been trying to call my madre to tell her that I wasn't coming home for dinner and would be back around 7 or 8, but no one answered the house phone and she doesn't have a cell phone. When I did get home, my madre was in the street waiting for me with a shawl because she thought i was in a dress all day! I'm pretty sure I told her that we had a soccer tourney but she was all worried and I felt bad she had been waiting outside in the cold--ahhh communication mishaps!
Tough Topics
Himno Nacional de Ecuador
7.7.10
Today we spent some time learning the National Anthem of Ecuador, because this Friday we are having a soccer tournament between all of the communities, and also a competition for a "Reina" (Queen) of our group, Omnibus 104. So each community has to elect one of the girls to represent their community, and I was chosen to be the Senorita of Tabacundo. Below are some of the words to the National Anthem. We didn't learn much because we didn't have a recording to listen to so it was a little difficult.
Salve Oh Patria, mil veces! Oh Patria!
Gloria a ti. Gloria a ti!
Gloria a ti. Gloria a ti!
Ya tu pecho tu pecho rebosa
gozo y paz ya tu pecho rebosa
y tu frente y tu frente radiosa
mas que el sol contemplamos lucir
y tu frente y tu frente radiosa
mas que el sol contemplamos lucir.
Los primeros los hijos del suelo que soberbio el Pichincha decora
te aclamaron por siempre senora
y vertieron su sangre por ti.
Dio miro y acepto el holocausto,
y esa sangre fue germen fecundo
de otros heroes que, atonito, el mundo
vio en tu torno a millares surgir
a millares surgir
a millares surgir.
Charlas
7.5.10
Today we had a meeting in Ayora with the Youth and Families group and we were given the topic for our first “charla” in our towns. "Charla" means "workshop" or literally "chat", and every volunteer will give various charlas throughout their service, so we are practicing now with our families and people in our communities. Tabacundo was given the topic of Personal Values. We put together the presentation and practiced in front of the group. We had the group listen to a series of statements, and then stand in front of one of three signs: I agree, I disagree, or I’m not sure. The statements talked about gender roles, teen pregnancy, etc. It was interesting to have some discussion about each statement and what ppl believed, why they chose to stand where they did. It was also good to have our Ecuadorian professors and trainers there to add to the discussion, because their culture has different opinions on things like homosexuality or having sexual relationships before marriage. We will officially give our charla on Wednesday afternoon with members of our host family and a few community members.
After the training day ended, Jordan, Hannah, Angela, and I went to a cafe and had some coffee and bizcochos (biscuits/biscotti). We talked about wanting to find out our sites next week, or where every volunteer will be placed for their two years. After we find out we will go on a one-week site visit to get to know our communities a little bit and get a feel for what it will be like. We've had some interviews with our Program Staff about our preferences about the type of work we would like to do within Youth and Families, where in the country we want to be, etc. My preference was to be in a warmer environment and use my previous Social Services experiences; I'm not really sure what to expect but I know it will all work out for the best. When we find out our sites we're supposedly having a party/ceremony and they will announce where each person's site is. I said I imagine it to be like a game show almost, where they will call each person up one by one to reveal their site. “Angela, Come on Down!” Almost like a Price is Right episode, Ecuadorian style. We were also told that the facilitadores/professors will dance and provide entertainment for the volunteers, so we will see what happens!!
The pic is of Ayora, where we meet at least a couple times a week as a big group to have Technical training and such.
Happy 4th of July!
7.4.10
WE LOVE AMERICA!!
We celebrated in Ayora, a smaller town than Tabacundo, with other volunteers in a large field with beer, bbq, other "American foods". I brought oreos, yummm!!
On the way to the field I spent about 1 hr with hannah trying to find the entrance to walk down to the field but we couldn’t find the “door”. Supposedly there was a small door with writings on it, it was in the middle of a stone wall, and then there were narrow stairs going down. We saw one door that had stairs going down but looked dangerous or as if no one really goes down those stairs, so we continued to walk and then ran into another volunteer. Eventually we went down the stairs and joined the party. We played some baseball with a soccer ball, so we played kickball basically, and invented some other games. It was nice to have some kind of invented American bbq and just speak English and hang out with other volunteers.
After the party, Hannah and I went back to my house and then went to Angela’s grandmother’s house for another celebration with all of the families from Tabacundo. Mama Dios and Daniel (her grandson) joined us, as well as Jordan, her mom and sister, Angela’s family, and Hannah (her parents were unable to come). We told funny stories about how I left my cell phone in Angela’s father’s van the second day we had them, as well as some posters for a presentation a week later (Angela did that). We made smores which were amazing, and ate pizza that Angela made with her family. Overall it was a really fun day, viva America!
Tabacundo loses a member, sadness.
Slowly adjusting...
The time passes by pretty slowly here so far, tomorrow we will be here one week and it feels a lot longer than that. Today in class we talked about the importance of family in ecuador. It seems similar to that of the U.S. in some ways, but here it’s very common for family to see each other every day and to be in constant contact. Sometimes the grandparents and parents will help to raise the children in the family and always help no matter what. We also talked about machismo and the rise of femenismo/feminism as well. There are some commercials that talk about machismo being part of violence, and woman are slowly gaining more respect. The other day when we went to Otavalo for La Fiesta de San Pedro, Jorge (my madre’s son in-law) was driving but couldn’t find the entrance to the party, but his wife was telling him where it was. He wouldn’t listen and pretty much pretended that she hadn’t said anything, he didn’t even respond to her. This was really frustrating to see because i wanted to yell at him but i knew i couldn’t . Otavalo is another town like an hour from Tabacundo, it's a big tourist spot and known for its Market. Fiestas de San Pedro are two months of basically partying in the streets, to be honest I'm not sure of the history but I know that people save up the rest of the year to be able to do a lot during the two months of San Pedro.
Today was frustrating in general because things kept changing and Norma wanted us to talk about the average age that people get married in the states, if we agree with extended family living together, etc, and no one really cared that much about the answers to her questions. We have a general meeting tomorrow in Ayora and heard at the last minute that we had to buy coffee, tea, snacks, etc for the day for 70 people. We felt frustrated because i feel like this is a new job, and it is not my responsibility to coordinate these things. Each group will have to do it at some point, and i understand that it was probably a test to see how we would handle it. We have everything we need and hope it’s enough for everyone, so we will see. It also didn’t help that i woke up this morning with a bad headache; it has gotten better but is not totally gone. I need to drink more water but I also have to go to the bathroom and i can’t! Tonight i’m in bed early and just trying to relax before i have to wake up early tomorrow. We did get to talk a bit with Gabi and Cristina, the Program Managers, which made us feel better to talk to them about some of our concerns, and we talked about “girl stuff”, like plucking eyebrows haha. I told them that last night I was practically in my closet with my flashlight plucking my eyebrows because I needed more light.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Chicas de Tabacundo!
6.19.10
Bienvenidos
**Time to play catch up! So I have horribly neglected my blog and am just starting to post things that were written back in June. The post date on the blog will be different but I'll include the date each entry was written so you can put these posts in perspective in terms of time. So sorry, I'm a first-time blogger!
6.18.10 Happy BDAY to my sister Kerty, 22 woop woop!! I love you!
We arrived safely later in the evening of the 16th to Quito, Ecuador, yay! All 68 (the largest group so far) of us were welcomed by Peace Corps staff who clapped for us an helped us get our luggage to the vans and then onto the buses. We were divided into two groups: Youth and Familes (Jóvenes y Familias), and Public Health (Salud Pública). As part of Youth and Families, I stayed at Hostal San Javier. Over the next few days we stayed in Quito and spent a lot of time at the Peace Corps Ecuador Office, getting to know staff and fellow volunteers, completing paperwork, getting shots, language exams, and talking about safety and cultural things, policies/procedures as PCVs (Peace Corps Volunteers). The 67 other volunteers that I’ve met are amazing people, and come from all over the States; there are two other “Wisconsinites” (woo!). Everyone comes with all different kinds of traveling and volunteer experiences. Our group is also fairly young, most have just recently graduated from college, others are in their mid to upper 20s.
After training during the day we came back to the hostal those couple of days and had dinner, and then hung out, played games, etc., you know, the usual thing you do when you first meet new peeps.